As a blogger myself who is trying to eek out a semi-informal career as a starving writer, I love to read blogs.  I have a variety of interests and I read a variety of blogs- unschooling, pets, games, theology, natural living, and more.

But there are some times when I reach a blog- whether through a link or a suggestion- and I just can’t read your posts.  I’m not trying to sound snarky because I know my little corner of the world is only interesting to a select number of people. I need to work on my own blog as much as I hate to admit it.

So this list is as much for myself as it is for you.  There are just some things that turn me off immediately.  And the things that I notice about other blogs- I am going to try to work on those things here.

1. The design

This is my biggest pet peeve.  I don’t mind if your blog is a cookie cut-out theme as long as it is solid and it works.  What irks me is the “flower garden” designs that seem so redundant nowadays.

Pay someone to re-do your blog but please, please don’t make it look like Grandma’s scrapbook page.  It seems to be the hotness right now but when I get to your blog I see nothing of your personality.  Yes, you like flowers and pretty colors and italic fonts- but so does everyone else!  I sometimes find myself wondering if the SAME person designed every single one of these blogs and just changed a color or a font and sold the same idea over and over and over again.

2. Speaking of personality- blogs where you can’t tell who wrote the darn thing.

When I’m reading an article on Huffington Post or another online ‘zine, the author will be either well-known enough to me that I don’t need a bio or I won’t really care.

But when I’m reading a personal blog- I want to know the personality behind the post.  Really, I want to see YOU.  Whether that is through a bio link somewhere, a picture, some personal posts, or your writing style; I want to connect with you.

Because honestly, if I want information or a recommendation or even just advice, I have to trust the source.

I know some blogging “experts” preach content, content, content.  But fellow bloggers can spot a money-pumper blog in a millisecond.  I am going to preach to you- personality first, content second.

You have to see the integrity of the messenger before you will listen to the message.

3. Weird fonts and off-color text

Seriously this one should be a no-brainer.  And yet I see it all the time.

The bright colorful text- on a dark background.

The GREY (grey!) text on a white background.

The font that is so curly and slanted that it’s harder to read than my Grandma’s hand-written birthday cards.

I can’t read it!  There is a reason pens come in 2 colors- black and blue.  Because grey, orange, yellow, purple, and aquamarine are hard to read on a white background.  They are OK for highlighting parts of your text or for making headlines stand out.

But please, for the love of Josey Wales, don’t make all your text that way!

The grey text really gets me.  After a while, the text starts to blur and look like a giant blob.  Make your main text black, highlight with bold and italic, and use color for accent.

Please?

4. I can’t tell what I’m supposed to be reading

Wow you have lots of sponsors!  That is great!  But why are your ads and sponsors taking up all the space?

What side is the post and what side is the miscellaneous info?

Or better yet- what links are NOT spammy ads?

After personality comes content.  If your buttons, links, and sponsors are taking over and oozing their way into your content and I can’t differentiate between the two I am not going to read or click on anything.

I know you make money off your blog- that is totally cool with me.  But like I said above, it’s about trust.  If I like you, and your content, I am going to click on an ad I find intriguing or use your affiliate link.

Make sure your blog is clear about what is YOURS and what is NOT.

5. Navigation

Ok- now here is where I really get to beat myself up.

If I need to find something on your blog- can I easily access it?  Do you have a search button, categories, a nice pretty header navigation?

If I read something I like, chances are I am going to stay around and read some more.  And this is important for you too- for your stats and your traffic.

Because Google now ranks sites based on not only their hits, but how many in-site clicks you get.  So if I come and read just one post and leave, that is not as powerful as if I read the one post and then click to another.

Plus, you want people to stay and chat awhile right?  I mean, unless you have a money-pumper blog you WANT comments and readers and a fan-base.

Right?

So make sure people can find your best content, your specific categories of content, and your content at other sites.

That is what I am trying to work on in the coming weeks and months- improving the ole’ “nav” here at These Temporary Tents.  Since I didn’t really know the power of categories and tags when I started, I have a huge mess on my hands.

6. Music or video that plays automatically

Just don’t do it.  It scares the croutons out of me and it gets really annoying when you can’t find where to turn it off.

It is an evasion of my headphone privacy!  Especially if I have tons of tabs open (I have 9 open as I’m writing this) and I can’t figure out which one is making that din.

Check your site.  When you are logged out of your admin- when you are on a public computer at the library- and see if any of your videos, ads, or music players cause the librarian to come over and tell you skeedadle.  ;0)

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Remember, I’m not trying to rag on anyone’s blog here.  I read blogs that sometimes meet 1 or 2 of the “pet peeves” I listed above.  I might even qualify for a couple of them.

But we can all admit when we can make a few small changes and become better right?

And if you happen to LIKE the way your blog is right now, I have no qualms with you!  I am glad you are confident and bold.  You probably have more readers than me anyways so who am I to talk?

I admit my personal tastes shouldn’t dictate what you do over on your domain.

Just don’t expect me to “like” it enthusiastically.

Thoughts?  Passive aggressive rants?

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  • http://winging-it.me Carma

    Totally agree with each of these points! I’m always surprised at how many people will work so hard on making their page cool or eye-catching, and never stop to think about whether any of it makes sense or whether visitors can find or read anything!

    • Anonymous

      I am just starting to learn about all these tricks of the trade!

  • Grizwald Grim

    I may have a problem with #3 – but it’s really hard to tell if other people are going to have a problem with your fonts/colors when they look so damn good to you :)

    I’m sure there’s a way to install multiple styles so a user can select their own – but how the heck is a person supposed to find the time to figure out how to do that to their sites. Busy busy.

    • Anonymous

      Hmm, if the font fits use it? ;0)

  • http://loniedwards.com/ Loni

    I agree about the fonts/colors. Sometimes I go to a site that is just crazy to look at. Luckily, most people use wordpress and blogger so they don’t get too creative with that anymore.

    I get turned off by blogs that don’t support Firefox. If I log into a blog and the type is all over the place, huge and unreadable, I immediately leave. It’s unfortunate, but your right. Admins should look at their blog in other browsers from a public perspective.

    Good post and thanks for going to my blog :)

    • Anonymous

      Thanks- and your blog is beautiful by the way!

  • http://michellecusolito.blogspot.com/ Michelle Cusolito

    Oh no! Now I need to go look at my blog- have I done any of this?! Everything you said makes sense. When I started, I had a light green background with dark green font. I loved the way it looked until someone told me they had trouble reading it. Huh? I hadn’t realized others had trouble until a reader told me. Now I have a white background behind black text. Much better!

    True confession… I have a tag problem, too. I didn’t “get it” when I started and now I have a GIANT mess, too. Where to begin? Ugh.

    http://michellecusolito.blogspot.com/

    • Anonymous

      It’s really hard when your past posts were transferred over from another domain! Maybe we can just try to do tags and categories right from NOW on? (teehee)

  • http://butomysoul.wordpress.com/ Julie

    I am glad you addressed music on blogs. I am there to read and process what the author has written, my brain does not need (nor can it handle) musical competition. Maybe I am getting old, I find it distracting. The first thing I do is look for a stop button. If I can’t find it, I quickly close the tab.

  • Jimmie

    Wow, you are right. Another recent peeve is size of font. Get it BIG, folks. Why make people strain to read the font? I guess it’s the over-40 eyes, but make it easy on folks! Pump that font up to the biggest it can go!

    The ad/content thing is a fine balance, one that I constantly evaluate. I don’t like busy sidebars. We don’t need to see every single blog award and every widget from every single social network you are on. The stuff in the sidebar is not for YOU but for your readers. Does it benefit the reader? If not, move it elsewhere. You can have a page devoted to your favorite blog bling or favorite social networks. But keep the sidebar tidy.

    Thanks for room to rant, Aadel. I’ve tweeted this post.

    • Anonymous

      Thanks for the tweet! And I constantly struggle with my sidebar. I try not to add too much but there are all these cool buttons and sites! ;0)

  • http://twitter.com/Jagular2k Becca

    Yes yes yes! Thanks for putting my frustrations into words! :D

  • http://monicabrand.com/blog Monica

    good points! I recently changed my blog up. Anyone care to pop over to offer a critique?

    • Anonymous

      Hello Monica! Your blog looks clean and simple- nothing wrong with that. And I see lots of candid photos that show tons of personality.

      I noticed you are using Pagelines as a theme. ;0) I use that on my other site and love it! If you ever need help with it let me know- it has a lot of flexibility.

      You can see how I like clean and simple over there: http://homeschoolcommons.com/

  • http://sharingsoda.blogspot.com/ Katie (Secrets & Sharing Soda)

    Lots of valuable, practical advice here. Nice post!

  • Mcdflory

    I really like this post as I’m in a fix it up stage on my blog. Thanks! mpflory.blogspot.com

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Pam-Wood-Kimsey/1338580127 Pam Wood Kimsey

    Aadel, I wish you would help me with my blog please!!! I feel like it is so messy and scrambled eggs, unorganized I say!! ;0 ~ Pammy

  • http://twitter.com/jenniferajanes Jennifer Janes

    I agree about the music that plays automatically, and I’m in the same mess with categories and tags. :(

  • Amy C.

    Great post. My biggest pet peeve is the music too… scares me to death when it comes blaring on! Would you check out my blog and give your opinion? :) quietlife411@blogspot.com. Thank you!

    • http://thesetemporarytents.com/ Aadel Bussinger

      Thanks for reading Amy! Your blog has 3 things I immediately like –
      1. white space (it really helps the eye see your content)
      2. YOU! Love the personal snippet on the sidebar – I immediately know who’s blog I am reading and
      3. Connections to social media platforms – your Pinterest button lets me know that you are “pin-friendly” and I all your social sharing buttons give me an easy way to share your great stuff.
      A couple tips –

      Use headlines! I learned this from writing freelance. Break up your posts with little headlines (use the formatting feature when you write your post). This not only helps readers scan your article, but it also boosts search engine traffic!

      I love the Pinterest button (as I said above) but also get connected on other social sites. If you have a Facebook fan page or a Google+ profile put those in the sidebar! Make it easy for people to find you on other platforms.